Monday, July 18, 2011

Which french fries do you tend to consider the tastiest in the fast food industry?

For tasty it has to be Checker's fries. They are so nice and crispy and well seasoned. They aren't salty like other restaurants or soggy and high in fat and grease. Checker's followed by McDonald's have the best fries.

How does a lipstick camera work?

having a problem with stealing my tools on the job. want to set up hidden camera to catch them. how does a lipstick camera work and what all will i need for it? does it take batteries?

What is the best way to deal with bad behaviour from a dog who has been abused?

I would say you're doing things right. One of my little dogs was abused when only a puppy and was left shut in a garden shed for the first few months of her life - the nervousness and timid behavious has never left her, even eight years on, and we're always aware of how things can stress her out so easily, so we try not to use raised voices around her (everyone has to have the odd argument though!) and we do our utmost not to startle her. She is so very well behaved though, so we've never really had to deal with correcting bad behaviour, other than she is very possessive when it comes to her toys, and smacking or any other dominance towards her has not had to be an issue. I think the firm voice and sending to the basket/cushion is the best way forward. Funny how they are out to please you - so they dont like the firm voice, seen as being told off and in bad books.

How can I make everyone laugh at my neighbor?

IF ONLY............I've got a couple across the road who don't work, claim all the housing benefits and everything else, and they run 2 cars (1 each). They have at least 4 holidays a year. It sickens me, but there are so many more of them in the country, I can't waste time I energy on getting annoyed

Is it ethical for a prof. to discourage students on the first day of a course?

I read this article too. This is part of the problem with education, they set you up to fail. It is very unethical and they should be more supportive of their students. Many of the higher science profs are more interested in research and don't want students, which is why they do this.

Why did my husband change after we got married?

A lady that my husband works with kept telling my husband that as soon as we got married I would change and stop doing things for him and eventually take his house, savings and property away from him and that my behavior would change and that I would turn into a different person. She is a very unhappy and negative person and my husband and I understand that. We lived together for 2.5 years before we got married and life was perfect. He finally trusted and loved me enough to ask me to marry him. Then HE did a lot of changing. It started out slow and now it is to the point that I feel more like his friend or roommate than I feel like his wife. We are great friends and have great love for each other but he is so different as far as a husband. He used to show me affection and say nice and romantic things to me and it was wonderful. I know time, energy and so many other things get in the way and things will mellow after a while so I expected some changes. Both of us are on our 3rd marriage. We haven't had regular sex since the week before we got married. He seems more interested in younger girls on the computer than he does in me. Girls that look like I used to 20 years ago. It is not a lot but it is not me either. I am starting to feel like he is cheating on me. He recently stopped drinking and he partly blames lack of interest on that but I don't think that has anything to do with it because he has quit drinking before and there was no problem with sex then and he lost interest way before he stopped drinking. We both know that he has hit midlife crisis. He is 51 and I am 44. I'm sure this has something to do with how long the lack of sex thing has lasted but he shows no affection anymore which he used to but it has slowly dwindled off to nothing. Now he is usually grouchy with me when we are home together. It feels like he loves me but he is tired of me more. I try to give him his space and alone time but it never seems to help. We usually have different days off and we used to run our separate errands while the other one was at work so we could spend time together. Now he waits until I get home and then leaves to run his errands. We used to have great communication and now I can't bring anything up because it upsets him. He WON'T talk about anything especially if the TV is on. I have to wait until he pauses the TV or he gets irritated with me. If I do say something I have to repeat myself because he doesn't pay attention to me. I love my husband and he loves me but how long is this going to last? He doesn't even notice or say thank you when I clean the house or even a room. He used to always say thank you or the kitchen looks nice or whatever. Now he doesn't even notice. When I work on his days off he would always call or text me when he woke up to say HI as I still do for him. Now he doesn't even do that anymore. We have no kids at home so that is not an issue. I am 5'5" and 140 pounds with long dark hair just like he likes and I feel that I am very pretty. I brush my teeth and hair, I keep myself clean and as fit as I can at my age. I see the way he looks at me when he thinks I am not looking so I know he likes the way I look. I contribute financially to the house and all of our bills are always paid. I don't know what to do and I don't know how long this is supposed to last. We haven't had sex in 4 months. I have no urges to go anywhere else and he knows it so that is good. He keeps telling me to wait and he will eventually get over it. What do I do to ease everything until this "phase" is over?

How long should I tolerate no intimacy from my husband?

We are young (28 and 30) and have been married about two years. To make a long story short, our sex life has dwindled down to nothing. We have not had sex in six months. My husband does not act bothered at all by this. After I finally confronted him about his lack of libido, he admitted that he knows he as an issue and does not know what is causing it. He swears he is not cheating, gay,unattracted to me, or anything like that. He has given me every reason possible to not want to have sex in the past two years (tired, stressed, just showered). He just has no desire and thinks maybe the problem is medical, like low testosterone. He said he would go see a professional and this was over a month ago. He has done nothing toward fixing this and we only talk about it if I bring it up. I'm sick of being the only one trying to resuscitate our sex life. He likes to cuddle and kiss and that's as far as it goes. I've taken all the pressure off and I gave up being the only one to initiate anything for the past year. I am bored out of my gord with my marriage now. Sex is not all that is important to me, but that's how he sees it. How much longer should I put up with his lack of interest in fixing our intimacy issues? I am really resentful at this point.