My Husband accuses me of cheating and is constantly suspicious of me?

Next time he says the word "divorce" just tell him fine and the sooner we get it over the better. Let him know you tired of his accusations and insecurities and well beyond trying to accept it. But be sure that it is what you really want. Because this is the only way you are ever going to live with any kind of peace. And perhaps deep down inside that is what he really wants. People usually go to marriage counseling as a last resort and expect the counselor to just wave a magic wand and everything will be all right. It doesn't happen that way and the counseling will only cause more grief. You both have to want to go and you both have to work at keeping it together. he doesn't sound like that kind of person and more into wanting things his way and will go to any extreme to get it. Your feelings mean nothing to him and someone just doesn't treat a person they truly love that way. Quit trying to get through to him. It will never happen.