Thursday, July 14, 2011
When me and my boyfriend fight!...WE FIGHT what should I do?..?
Me and my boyfriend have been together 2years and for the most part we can get along. The only big disagreements we ever really have is over his ex girlfirned or anything that has to do with her. In the beginning of our relationship she gave me alot of problems and shes not one of my favorite people because of it. But I got upset today his sister who is bestfreinds with his ex girlfriend made him a facebook page and email. So i found it one day i didnt request to be friends i didnt care to until the sister posted a pic of him and his ex when they first started going out at age 14 and 15. I raised hell because I felt that was disrespectful to me and she knew of our relationship and i didnt approve felt it was sneaky and fake so i spoke on it. she deactiviated his page. ...So moving forward to today i found out the email she made up for him is his name and his exgirlfriends name together in one. And the way i found out is i looked on his phone and saw he had logged out from facebook and the email read tinaChristopher@rocketemail.com (FOR EXAMPLE) and i instantly got pissed off because i was told he erased the page and then today i see the whole time and had proof it wasnt erased and the email include his and his ex girlfriends name. So i got a bit agitated he said his sister made it up she chose the name for it he barerly gets on it blah blah blah and i jus got more annoyed because this girl has been in my home hangin out with me calling me her friends and here shes being fake behind my back whether the ex girlfriend is her bestie or not i feel thats very disrespectful to me and we got into a heated argument he of course told me it wasnt that serious its just a internet page its no big deal and i was mroe so upset that he lied about it even being deleted and even more pissed at the email name. So his friends were over and we had a few words back and forth i continued asking why lie about a facebook page if u have nothing to hide? he gets to calling em all kinda names and pushin me and acting rude so evetually i started pushing back and our small arguements always turn into huge fist fights. i love him lot but to be honest the love is dwindling down and each and every time we fight i jus wanna give up. I dont like being his talked down on smackd or punched on period and its worse for him to do infront of people. So im getting to apoint where im love with this guy but we fight liek we are worst enemies and when i toldm im breakin it off he fights me more tells me no im not breaking up with him and he started packign his things sets them by the front door..its like a never ending thing. i lve him but i want and need change and for him to respect and stand up for me and not fight me or letme be looking like a fool...What do u all suggest please dont say break up thats such an easy answer i really need help with this one....
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